My husband and I traveled to Senegal
from December 24, 2012 through January 8, 2013 to visit our daughter during her
second year in the Peace Corps. The highlight of our travels was the time we
spent with Cibyl in her village.
We arrive by “Sept-Place”( a 7 passenger
Peugeot diesel wagon) at the little town of Mampatim at dusk. Cibyl has called ahead to
her village to send for the donkey cart. Backary, a teenager from Cibyl’s
compound hails us from the other side of the road leading a donkey attached to
a small flatbed cart with two car wheels. Stephen and Cibyl ride bikes the 7 km
to Saré Pate Bouya and I, with our luggage tied on, ride on the back of the
donkey cart.
Who
would ever have imagined me,at age 62, riding on the back of the donkey cart,
my legs swinging out the back over the dusty dirt road to a small Senegalese
village?
As we near the village I can hear many
voices and the rhythm of drums. Backary turns into Cibyl’s compound and 30 or
more children surround the cart singing a song of welcome. I see many little
hands reaching out to touch mine and I start to cry. It is such an emotional
yet joyous way to be welcomed to village !
In front of Cibyl’s hut we are introduced
to the chief’s wife and Mamadou the chief’s son or nephew (family connections
are a bit vague in this part of the world). Women and children form 2 lines in
front of us and while two women work the drums, other women take turns dancing
vigorously. They are singing, “Nafi’s Mama has arrived!”. Nafi is Cibyl’s
Mandinka name.
Fetching
water
The well is several hundred yards from
Cibyl’s compound. She takes two large buckets and long cloths to twist on top
of the head for carrying buckets back to the hut. Several women are at the well
filling containers. There are two pulleys with buckets attached. It’s a
cooperative effort to fill the buckets from the 80+ foot well.
Like a dance, Cibyl and another woman work
hand over hand hauling the bucket. We put a cloth on Steve’s head and hoist the
bucket up. Cibyl carries the other bucket. Clothes and dishes are washed and,
there is small amount of water left to warm in the sun for an evening bucket
bath.
To
the health hut
On the way to the health hut, we greet the
families in several compounds. Cibyl’s namesake, ‘Nafi’, is ill. She gets up
from her bed to greet us gives us warm hugs and kisses. She has a cough and
chest pain with severe headache. Someone has constricted her chest by tying a cloth
tight around it. Cibyl tells her to take the constricting cloth off and to steam
eucalyptus leaves with head covered over the steaming bowl.
At the
health hut, Cibyl looks up other medicinal plant recipes. She decides to make
an infusion of eucalyptus oil. Back in her hut Cibyl sends some flowers and
leaves from the Madagascar Primrose to Nafi for throat-soothing tea.
The
Concoran on his back !
“Quick everyone, hide in your huts. The
Concoran is here!” Part yeti, part boogey man, the Concoran dresses in bark and
bangs machetes around the compounds. This is part of the boys’ circumcision
ceremony. Cibyl has written a full description (see below). We
feel lucky to have witnessed the arrival of the Concoran. The banging of
machetes goes on throughout the night intermingled with the braying of donkeys.
Mandinka
Cibyl takes us to greet residents of each
compound of the village. There are over 27 compounds ranging in size from a few
family members to 30 or more in an extended family. The villagers call out
Cibyl’s Mandinka name “Nafi”. There’s an elaborate exchange greetings:
Kor
Tanante- [Villager]
Tanante
[our response]
Sumooley
[Villager]
Eebeejay-
[our response]
Jemool
Dung [Villager]
Eebeejay-
[our response]
Cibyl enters into a full conversation. We
look on in awe. Nafi is fluent in Mandinka!
Sometimes an elder showers us with
blessings. “Bless your family, bless your health”. Cibyl taps her forehead with her hand and tells us to do the same. "Ameen" she says and we follow suit.
We learn a few more words:
Herra-
peace
Abaraka-
thank you
I like Mandinka. They roll their R’s” just
like you do in Spanish and so some of the words come easily to me.
A
number of villagers have told us that Nafi is now Mandinka, a full-fledged
member of this 500+ person village. She is Senegalese through and through they
say. I try to tell them that I’m happy that Nafi now has a family in Sare Pate
Bouya. I tell them we miss her very much and look forward to her home coming to
America .
Our
last night in Sare Pate
We have brought fruit candy with us. Each is
cut in half. Cibyl walks from one fire to the next distributing the sweets. The
children follow with hands outstretched for more! Dinner is meager. We have
brought rice and lots of vegetables to the village but this is gone by the
third night. This fourth night’s meal consists of rice with a few beans for the
guests and rice with a rather slimy leaf sauce for Mamadou and his nephew who
eat with us each night.
Food is served in a common bowl. There are
several family units and each sits outside their hut around the common bowl.
The sauce, meat, vegetables or some combination of these is heaped in the
middle over the rice or millet. Each person scoops bits of these condiments
into their area of the bowl. Some eat with their hands, others with spoons.
There is a polite little rice bridge between each person’s area of the bowl. Leftovers
are then brought to the women’s hut and finished by the children and women or saved for breakfast. We try our best to eat appreciatively while leaving as much as possible for
the women and children.
Cibyl tells us about starving time which I
think is coming soon. During this time only two meals are served per day for
lack of food. This way of life is hard to fathom. Chickens run freely through village
– no one keeps a coop to be able to collect eggs. Sheep and goats are
everywhere and are very occasionally slaughtered but no one milks them. In
mango season, there is so much fruit that is left to rot; no one is drying
mango fruit for hungrier times. Cows are the family bank and are sold only
under dire circumstances. Even a toddler suffering from malaria and needing a
doctor’s care does not warrant the sale of a cow to pay for the medicine. Nafi
generously covered this cost for one of the toddlers in her compound
It’s very hard for us Westerners to
understand the culture. My brain keeps churning out solutions:
- Create a community garden
- build chicken coops
- milk the goats to give the children some much-needed protein
- make cheese or yogurt with the rest
- sun-dry the tomatoes and mangoes for future use
Cibyl-Nafi wisely explains much of this has
been tried and has failed. You remind yourself to appreciate small things. Nafi
encourages use of the Moringa tree in the village, an amazing plant with nutritive
medicinal qualities that grows easily in village. She grows medicinal plants
next to the health hut. Hopefully when her service ends, a villager or two will carry on where she
left off.
And
there are big things happening thanks to”Nafi”. She has written a grant and pit
latrines are now installed in each compound. Mamadou’s youngest wife is now on
birth control thanks to Nafi’s influence. Most recently, she’s been speaking
with the middle school and elementary school staff about a well project and
latrines at the middle school….
As we drift off to a fitful sleep in Nafi’s
hut, we are awakened through the night by donkeys braying . Is it mating
season? And in the early hours before dawn, we once more are awakened by the
clanking of the Concoran’s machete.
Great post - emotional - foreign - bonding - we are in an alternative reality here in California. Thank-you for taking the time to post. Critique: link to pics doesn't work or perhaps I am techno illiterate.
ReplyDeleteFigured out pics. Thank-you. Lloyd
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